How to Make the Speech Process Flow and Your Audience Applaud
Bruce of WeddingSpeeches.co.nz has been coaching speechmakers for over 18 years - here he provides you with some guidance on how to make the process flow and the audience applaud.
The following
considerations will ensure the speech portion of the day runs smoothly, and
each speakers' delivery is positively received.
SEVEN Points to Consider When Deciding Your Speech
Process
Don't get carried away - have a list of all
your speakers and keep it short. Too many speakers may weary your guests.If at all possible, avoid last minute requests
by people to speak.Don't force anyone to speak if they really
don't want to.Encourage those who are concerned about their
speech to seek expert advice.Choose an MC who is comfortable and confident
speaking in public. Ensure you brief the MC on your expectations
regarding their role, the length of introductions, the tone, their content
and the flow of the evening.Let your speakers know well in advance that
you would like them to speak at the wedding.
SEVEN Essentials to Increase Your Speakers' Success
Commit time to your speech preparation and
give it your undivided attention. Don't think it's okay to come up with
your speech on the day. Find out what the purpose of your speech is
and ask the bride and groom for their expectations. Ask for help if you're stuck, unsure or need
guidance. It's always good to get someone else's opinion. Don't embarrass the bride or the guests.It doesn't have to be hilarious - some funny
anecdotes and comments are good, but you don't need a pile of unrelated
jokes. Keep your speech relevant and try not to
ramble. Practice, practice, practice. Practice in
front of someone else and ask for honest comments, as small adjustments in
critical areas of the speech can often make a large difference. Good luck!
- Bruce, WeddingSpeeches.co.nz
