How do we invite guests to a wedding with no reception?
We are getting married in Rarotonga and are not having a reception afterwards. How do we phrase this in a letter/invitation so that people know what is happening but also know we'd love to have them there?
Jane, Wellington
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Erin answers...
Once you say the word "wedding", people will assume they're getting a free meal. In essence, you want to invite your friends and family to come away with you...during which they will happen to witness a marriage between their afternoon swim and Happy Hour! While you may feel a bit awkward saying it, you need to be quite clear that there is no reception to avoid any confusion. I suggest you word your invitation in a casual manner that still makes it clear that you won't be footing the bill.
Something like:
Come away with us to Rarotonga! We invite you to join us for a nice, relaxing holiday in the Pacific Islands. While there, we will make our relationship "official" in a casual ceremony. Although there is no reception planned, we would love to have you present for this special occasion.
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